Daily Archives: 07/14/2009

(Community Matters) I’ve just had a chance to skim Brian Solis’ piece on the evolution of the public relations industry?

Social Media symbolizes a crossroads for public relations representing the decision we, as individuals, face in our career. In one direction, we can adopt the transparency and the expertise necessary to genuinely and sincerely connect directly with our customers, peers and the influencers who advise them. In the other direction, we can continue relying on hyperbole and jargon filled press releases for coverage, spamming targets with irrelevant information, maintaining a superficial and shallow knowledge of the products and industries we represent, and maintaining distant and removed relations with those we wish to cover our stories.

The new world of influence demands customer empathy, evangelism, passion, expertise, and knowledge – everything else is disposable and takes away from your focus and potential.

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(Community Matters) The national “gathering of the faithful,” the Episcopal General Convention in Anaheim, CA includes the lay nominee of The Texas Diocese, a member of St. James’ & our very dear friend, Ora Houston. Of course another very dear & supportive friend is there as a clerical leader, the Bishop of Seattle, The Rght Rev. Bishop Greg Rickles.

from Huffington Post:

Bishops at the Episcopal General Convention in Anaheim, Calif., voted 99-45 with two abstentions for a statement declaring “God has called and may call” to ministry gays in committed lifelong relationships.

Lay and priest delegates to the meeting had comfortably approved a nearly identical statement, and were expected to adopt the latest version before the meeting ends Friday.

the Episcopal gay advocacy group Integrity, said in a statement Monday night that the declaration “effectively ends” the temporary prohibition on gays in ministry. Integrity called the vote “another step in the Episcopal Church’s `coming out’ process.” Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori, who leads the Episcopal Church, was among bishops who voted to approve the declaration.

offers a friend from the floor of the convention:

So to daily reflections and prayers… the chaplain of the House of Deputies is Rev. Wade from Washington. He offers a reflection and/or a prayer at opening, around noon day and before we leave for the day. When emotional issues arise on the floor (the vote regarding the Bishop of Ecuador Central), he is called upon to offer prayer. Rev. Wade has truly been given the gift of prayer from God. Plus he is able to spontaneous encapsulate all of the fear and hopes that Deputies feel on the floor and weave them into a prayer that touches the hearts of people from every persuasion. There have been times that the words God gives him move me to tears.

Today I thank God for using Rev. Wade to heal wounded souls and keeping hope alive in those who feel betrayed by the Church.

(Community Matters) So, over just the last couple of days, I’ve connected with someone with whom I went to elementary school 40 years ago. I’m embarrassed to admit I have zero recollection of him. Evidently we were in patrols & third grade together. Doubly surprised I don’t remember him because he’s Black. I don’t even remember having a Black friend until junior high. Our schools just weren’t very integrated. I don’t remember a Black classmate until Johnny Johnson in junior high.

And, tonight, he’s told me we were kissing friends. Again, no recollection and didn’t even realize what this meant. Further into the IM chat, I asked if kissing friends meant we actually kissed. He said yes, in the circular drive at Wainwright Elementary – seriously, I have zero recall; thought the first boy I kissed was . . . . well, that’s another story and many many years later.

(Community Matters) Two very different responses to my posting on Bishop Andy Doyle

ah, yes. the two-step is a lovely dance. I’m glad you can appreciate its nuances…

and

Eugene – your take doesn’t surprise me – afterall you had no problem with Rick Warren at Obama’s inaguration. This kind of accomodation keeps us at the table and out of power. He is the BISHOP of the diocese – if he wanted to avoid this pain for those of us who are gay and lesbian he could take a leadership role, he could LEAD the diocese to do the right thing(inclusion) but he won’t and you’ll be okay with that – no surprise on either count.

The first acknowledges my belief that Bishop Andy is much more liberal than he wants to be framed and “no change” is likely language for autonomy by parish. The second comment is likely from a reader not familiar with our church and understandably impatient.

I’ve played both roles. I’ve created impatience and chaos and have sacrificed career for making statements, for demanding equality. And, there is a responsibility that comes with influence, one that often places you in the crossfire of both sides. My first draft of the previous posting wasn’t so understanding nor optimistic. Then, I reflected on meeting and talking with Bishop Andy, on the perspectives of mutual friends, and on the nuance of language.

That a damning comment comes anonymously says something in addition to the message. What’s especially interesting is I probably know the reader, and it’s likely someone with whom I play opposite roles in another forum.

I am offended by the statement “accommodation keeps us at the table and out of power.” I’d place my record for change and progress on LGBT equality, HIV/AIDS & breast cancer issues up against all but a hand full of Austin gay men still alive.

Nevertheless, impatience is good and prompts progress.

(Community Matters) Evan Smith interviews the new Episcopal Bishop in this month’s Texas Monthly. Bishop Andy acknowledges our diocese’s diversity and his own relationships with gay/lesbian friends, and he indicates the diocese “will not see change” in its practices. To the extent that this allows individual parishes to continue same-sex blessings and for LGBT priests to continue practicing in the diocese – while not especially bold leadership – perhaps a sign of more inclusion in our future.

Even though there is a great diversity of points of view on this topic, the people of the diocese will not see changes in how we look at same-sex blessings or unions, nor on the topic of ordination of bishops. Now—and this is the important part for me—I grew up in a diverse culture and have friends who are gay and lesbian. The reality of our diocese is that we have gays and lesbians who go to our churches. They find their spiritual journeys entwined with our own in this place. So when I make the statement that things will not change, there is a great deal of pain. I am unwilling to pretend that pain is not there.

As to his statement about the ordination of Bishops, I don’t believe he’s not friends with & supportive of Bishop Robinson. Disappointing he’s signaling his unwillingness to support a gay or lesbian as a Suffragan Bishop nor same-sex unions, yet.