Daily Archives: 11/07/2009

Sonya Cohen Cramer

(Community Matters) Our dear friend Sonya Cohen Cramer is our house guest – has been for a couple of nights. Admittedly, I’ve not been a very attentive host, though we are good enough friends where this is allowed. This afternoon, we’ll drink wine and slow cook food for a casual dinner with mutual close friends.

Sonya & her daughter, Dio at the National Portrait Gallery
w/ me & Steven a couple of weeks ago


Sonya, Reid, Gabel & Dio
at the Lincoln Memorial Concert for the Inauguration


ADL Houston

(Community Matters) Celebrated equality, fairness & justice at the Anti-Defamation League’s Houston Torch of Liberty Awards Wednesday night with Jan Soifer, Adrienne Donato, Kirk Rudy, Jeff Newberg, Louvon Harris, Tiffany Taylor & Victor McDonald (our table).

The mission of ADL is to stop the defamation of the Jewish people, to secure justice and fair treatment to all citizens alike.

David & Rochelle Merfish Jacobson

Rochelle was recognized as this year’s Torch of Liberty recipient, the highest honor bestowed by the ADL on extraordinary community leaders and philanthropists. Rochelle’s a political colleague; we spent some time together in DC recently. She’s a ubiquitous philanthropist in Houston, funding all sorts of good work – especially through ADL and Planned Parenthood.
Louvon Harris & Tiffany Taylor

Louvon is James Bryd Jr’s’ sister, Tiffany his niece. James is the man chained to a truck and dragged through the East Texas streets until he was dead. He is one of the two namesakes of the Matthew Shepard & James Bryd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act. Louvon and I met in DC last week at the White House ceremony celebrating the new legislation. I’m so excited she’s sending me a copy of her mother’s book, Hope Amidst Despair, A Grieving Mother Speaks.

Jan Soifer & Victor McDonald


Jan’s a dear friend with a heart as big as a pumpkin. She’s also a colleague on the Austin ADL executive committee. I sat next to Victor, first time to meet. He’s a businessman, a former financial worker. Though, after the Enron implosion, he and a friend launched an ice cream truck business. While driving the truck near Tomball, he was attacked and beaten by three white supremacists. He told me the ADL helped him imensely.

Many thanks to Stacey Fields, David Goldstein, Martin Cominsky & Scott Atlas for their gracious hospitality. Kirk & I chatted all the way back; the drive felt like only 30 minutes.

Can’t wait to celebrate Kirk & Amy with the Austin ADL Torch of Liberty Award and James Armstrong & Larry Connelly with our Humanitarian Award on January 28th at the Four Seasons. Victoria Hentrich and David Kurio on board to help produce the event. We’re planning a very fun after party too, including good friends who can’t make the dinner.

Shelley Zausmer my co-chair for the event. Steve Adler our board chair and spiritual leader. Marcia Levy in charge of development with Jeff Newberg reaching out to supporters and friends to join us. Lynn Meredith, Marc Winkelman, Alexa Wesner & Adrienne Donato helping there too. Dave Shaw, Michael Feferman & Judy Waxman in charge of messaging and public relations. Doug Ulman, Jan Soifer, Diane Land, Audrey & Ray Maislin, Mark Salmanson, Julie Thornton, Lily Saad, Robyn Spertus and Judy Berkowitz also on the event committee. Total fun & all rock stars. Event shouldn’t be missed.

First Step Toward Full Inclusion for LGBT Americans

(Community Matters) Guest editorial on the Matthew Shepard & James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act.

Austin American Statesman

First Step Toward Full Inclusion as American Citizens

Eugene Sepulveda, Local Contributor
Saturday, November 07, 2009

President Barack Obama signed into law the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act last week. To most Americans, it was a nonevent, and to some, it was the unraveling of morality.

To lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans, it is the first time we have been included as full citizens in U.S. law.

These enhanced enforcement and prosecutorial tools are available to combat hate-motivated violence based on race, color, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or disability. It made no sense to exclude gay people because we are also often victims of violence motivated by hate.

Despite so many inauthentic arguments why my community should not be protected, the real reason many fought against including gay people has nothing to do with “special rights” and everything to do with deliberate discrimination. Some Americans object to recognizing gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people as equal before the law — worthy of the same rights that the majority takes for granted.

Shepard was a 21-year-old Wyoming kid who was brutally beaten and left to die tied to a barbed wire fence just because he was gay. On Oct. 28 in Washington, I met Bishop Bruce Caldwell of the Episcopal Diocese of Wyoming, and we talked at length about Shepard, who’d been an acolyte in the church. Caldwell presided at Shepard’s funeral.

I had the opportunity to personally thank Judy and Dennis Shepard, who have advocated for this legislation since their son’s killing 11 years ago, and Betty Byrd Boatner and Louvon Harris, sisters of James Byrd, a man who was chained to a truck and dragged to death in East Texas because he was black. Byrd’s sisters and Shepard’s parents stood with Obama as he celebrated the signing of this law.

Most Americans do not realize gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender Americans can be fired and otherwise discriminated against without any protection from our Constitution or federal laws.

It is a founding principle of this country that all Americans enjoy certain inalienable rights and that no majority of voters can withhold or otherwise deny equality to a minority. Gay people celebrate this new law as a first step toward full inclusion, long overdue, as American citizens afforded every right granted to others.

Though one might interpret their religion to have an opinion about my community, this is not a church-run state. It is one thing to respect others’ religious opinions but another thing — and altogether unacceptable — to let religion be used as a pretext for injustice.

Most recently, scripture was quoted to fight against interracial marriage, against integration of races in public places. Now, select quotes out of historical context are used to defend prejudice against lesbians and gays.

My husband — we were legally married in British Columbia, Canada, in 2004 — and I are active members and leaders at our Episcopal church in East Austin. St. James was founded because black faculty members of Huston and Tillotson colleges were not allowed to worship at other Episcopal churches in Austin.

St. James Episcopal is an inclusive, multi-cultural community. The richness of our community lies in our diversity — black, brown, white, rich, poor, young, middle-aged, old, straight, gay and transgender.

No one’s gifts should be denied our communities; no American should be denied liberty, justice or the pursuit of happiness.

Sepulveda has lived in Austin since 1983 and is a community leader long involved in business, nonprofits and politics

http://www.statesman.com/opinion/content/editorial/stories/2009/11/07/1107sepulveda_edit.html

Outside at Julio’s on a Friday Night

(Community Matters) May I say it’s pretty much perfect when cool, dry and dusk outside . . . and you’re having margaritas & rotisserie chicken. We met Jenn & John Hamlin for a relaxed dinner at Julio’s – much fun

wow, the Fresh Plus just across the street was robbed while we were sitting not 100 yards away


EF’s Austin Invitational Poker Tournament

(Community Matters) Wow, what a blast. Joe Liemandt (founder & CEO, Trilogy) chaired this year’s event. May I just say he’s among the very best fundraising chairs I’ve ever met – completely metric and success driven in a very fun way. We budgeted to gross $200k and grant $25k to a nonprofit named by the winner; grossed over $300k and made an $80k grant to the winner’s nonprofit.

Joe Liemandt speaking, EF Chman Bill Bock (right)

we promised to award at least $25,000 cash to another nonprofit

Andra Liemandt, Kris Krause & Jenny Mason

Joe’s wife Andra & friends helped prep for the event – especially the jewelry which generated nearly $50k during our auctions.

one of the night’s auction items, a Cartier platinum and diamond bangle braclet

the Austin Ventures team Jeff Browning, Craig Milius, Phil Siegel, Chris Pacitti & Tom Ball
Mike Rovner also joined us but not in this photo

AV and Silicon Labs are our on-going, annual underwriters. How great to have so many of the AV team at the event. Necip Sayiner & Silicon Labs purchased a corporate table and had executives out in full force. We missed not having Nav Sooch at the event this year – hope he’s feeling well soon.

Heather Graham

Heather really enjoyed herself. So much so that she auctioned off lunch for $25,000 for EF and our nonprofit grant recipients.

Our winners – Mickey Milsap (3rd), Jaye Elliott (1st) & Steve Schoonmaker (2nd)

EF staffers, Shobie Partos, Peter Frey & Amanda Chiampi

We have the best staffers in the land.

Teresa & James Nicholson with Annie Duke

Teresa & James Nicholson own Casino Connection, the vendor we’ve used & love for three years. Annie Duke was the 2004 World Poker Series Champion where she won $2,000,000.

Jennifer Tilly and Shannon Moakler were with us as well.

with our previous co-chair & my dear friend, Jack McDonald

Jack McDonald & Bill Wood (Silverton Partners) chaired our poker tournament our first two years. We owe them big time for getting two very successful years on which we’ve built the third.

John Hamlin & Troux CEO/EF board member, Dave Hood

Kevin Connelly from Entourage

Kevin Connelly was having a blast. So much so that he impromptu donated an Entourage walk on role. Joshua Baer purchased the role for $32k. Kevin then donated another which brought in $25k more.

Beth Harwood (Vinson & Elkins), Kevin, Jenny Murphy (Sante Ventures) & Amanda Chiampi (EF) photo Jenny Murphy

the VCFO table

Thanks to Ellen Wood for organizing this table and our friends including Diana Holford (of Jones Lang LaSalle which was a huge sponsor of the evening) Elizabeth Davis & Sandra Uselman for playing.

EF board member, Scott Collier

Laura Kilcrease & Jeff Browning

The entire poker tournament was Jeff’s idea three years ago – my how it’s grown.

uShip founder, Jay Manickam

Joshua Baer (OtherInBox founder & CEO) & Trey, an aspiring, young entrepreneur


Joshua Baer is a successful serial entrepreneur. He even purchased a corporate table and hosted a great group of young, start up entrepreneurs.


Couldn’t have done the evening without six outstanding sponsors: Trilogy (our underwriter), Jones Lang LaSalle, iRunway, McKool Smith, SoftServe & Softlayer