(Community Matters) I’ve sometimes shocked people by saying picking a mate should be a selfish act. An important reason I knew Steven and I would be good together is that I knew he’d compliment me and help me become the man I wanted to be. And, I knew I’d be good for him too. Yes, of course, there has to also be chemistry; lucky him I also thought he was cute 🙂
This New York Times article about Sustainable Love
“If your partner is helping you become a better person, you become happier and more satisfied in the relationship.”
(my score: 60 and above — Highly Expansive. You are gaining a lot of new experiences and reaching new goals as a result of your relationship. Chances are you have a happier, more sustainable relationship as a result.)
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