Mrs. Bertha Means

(Community Matters) Austin turned out to honor Bertha Means’ 90th birthday celebration.

Congr Lloyd & Libby Doggett with Bertha Means

Congressman Doggett and Bertha go way back.  She loves to tell the stories of him, David Butts and others organizing minority voter registration out of her living room while the guys were in college.

Bertha has a lot of stories to tell – important stories.  She led the integration of Barton Springs, of the local skating ring, of UT athletics, at St. Stephen’s Episcopal School (with her dear friend Dr. Alan Becker who was there yesterday).  She’s told me stories about driving her family to north Texas, having to pack food and water because black families couldn’t sit down in restaurants along the way and she wasn’t going to patronize businesses that didn’t welcome her and her family.  Dr. James Means was also a pioneering man.  He moved Bertha and the family to Austin to teach at Tillotson College.  Since St. David’s Episcopal Church wouldn’t admit Negros, Bertha and six other women founded what’s today St. James Episcopal.  We proudly retain our deep African American roots.

Judge Lora Livingston, HT Pres Larry Ervin, State Rep Dawnna Dukes

Friends and politicos turned out in mass, in addition to those pictured, also State Senator Kirk Watson (& Liz), Judge Flowers (& Simone) and Council member Sheryl Cole (& Kevin).  Sheryl told a story about meeting with Bertha while considering running for City Council and how Bertha told her she wouldn’t be the first African American woman to run for city council – Bertha was (which I didn’t know) – but that she’d be the first elected.

“GG’s” great grand kids

Dr. & Mrs. Means’ family out in force – what an extraordinary family of achievers and generous souls they’ve raised.

I’m not so sure Bertha was my fan early on.  When I started attending St. James with Steven 11 years ago (he’d already been attending for 9 years and was one of a handful of non-black members) I insisted we move to the front row.  I wasn’t going to hide or shrink in the back; it was my observation that the few gay members of the congregation, while loved, practiced that Southern tradition of keeping it to themselves.  That was not how I planned to meet potential members of my spiritual family.  There were tensions in the early months as Steven and I became more visible as gay family.  Father Wm Adams called for twelve weeks of prayer & Bible meetings on the topic and those with feelings about this all read & contemplated on it, and got to know each other better.  I’m not sure if it was the praying and Bible reading, the discussions and getting to know each other, or the crab cake eggs benedict and veuve clicquot mimosas I served her that eventually won Bertha Means over 🙂

Anyhow, I love Bertha Means and everything she’s done for our communities.  I was a strong proponent and campaigner for her election as a national delegate to the 2008 National Democratic Convention and loved being with Grandma for Obama in Denver.

I’m reminded of Gene Hackerman when I spend time with Bertha – both world changing women

thanks for the pic, Bette Reichman


11 Years

(Community Matters) Yesterday, Steven & I celebrated being together for 11 years. We have many anniversaries – Steven most likes to celebrate Apr 30 (our first date). He was so sweet – he planned a Chez Nous evening.  Though, after us both traveling this week, so much nicer that we stayed in, cooked, hung out, watched Tuesday’s Glee and had dessert by the pool.  I really am one of the luckiest men alive.

We also celebrate May 10, 2000 (our Austin commitment ceremony) and July 24, 2004 (our Canadian wedding)

Kuta Cowboys

(Community Matters) Who knew?

  • Bali: Kuta Cowboys
  • Jamaica: Rent-a-Dreds/Rent-a-Rasta
  • Jordan: Marlboro Men
  • Dominican Republic: Sanky-Pankies*
  • Greece: Kamakia (fishing harpoons)**
  • Croatia/Bulgaria: Seaguls
  • Peru: Brichero
  • Gambia: Bumsters

Vitaminwater: Here’s the Situation – That’s Fit

(Community Matters) I don’t even know Jersey Shore nor Mike Sorrentino, “the Situation.” but read about it in the nytimes . . . . so what the heck

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U.S. Soldiers in Afghanistan – ‘Telephone’ by Lady Gaga

(Community Matters) Makes me happy to watch – you go guys Hat Tip Gawker

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subsequently: most about the guys in video

Ernst & Young EOY Finalists

(Community Matters) Finalists announced for Ernst & Young Entrepreneurs of the Year awards:

EOY Finalists
All Web Leads, Inc. – Jim Waltrip
Austin Ribbon & Computer Supplies –  Jana Grimes
BancVue  – Gabriel Krajicek
CSIdentity Corporation  – Bill Morrow
Green Mountain Energy Co. – Paul Thomas
LDR Spine/LDR Holding  – Christophe Lavigne
Lombardi, Inc  – Rod Favaron
SolarWinds  – Michael Bennett
uShip  – Matthew Chasen

Lifetime Achievement

Mike Maples

Social Finalists

College Forward – Lisa Fielder
Frameworks Community Development – Joyce McDonald
Goodwill Industries of Central Texas – Jerry Davis
True Light Day Care – Janet Blake

Chase & Jordan

(Community Matters) Seriously?  These two teens just want to go to a prom but some parents just can’t stand it. here

Most Influential Women in Tech

(Community Matters) Fast Company Magazine

The Creative Class

(Community Matters) funny negotiations going on with a Polish publisher translating and printing Richard Florida’s the Creative Class.  One of Steven’s monologues is included in Richard’s book and the publisher doesn’t seem to get that we’ve never looked to make any money off of it.

Arianna Huffington in Austin

(Community Matters) Arianna Huffington will be in Austin on Monday for the Texas Freedom Network’s fundraiser at Agudas Achim.  Looking forward to seeing her & supporting a great cause (wow, years since I’ve been on that board and the organization is doing even more and better than ever before).

Golden Hornet – Tosca String Quartet

(Community Matters) last night’s Tosca String Quartet performance in collaboration with the Golden Hornet Project and FuseBox was exceptional – completely delightful and I’m kicking myself because I didn’t stay for the second at 9:45.

They played lots of Graham Reynolds’ and Peter Stopschinski’s arrangements as well as Will Taylor’s, Sam Arnold, Christopher Cox and Rostam Batmanglij.  Admittedly, I was unfamiliar with the last three.  Rostam performed in person, charming the audience – what a find. (hey, guess I’m late to the parade, googling, I’ve just learned everyone knows who he is but me – something to do with vampires.  Seriously, who knew?)

thanks to Dana Friisen-Hansen & Mark Holzbach for inviting me to sit with their tribe and share their wine.  The Alamo Drafthouse the Ritz a perfect place for an orchestra concert

DC Bound

(Community Matters) Off to DC this morning for various DNC meetings, dinners and quick gatherings with old & new friends. Way excited about tomorrow night’s reception with VP Biden, then Thursday’s rather intimate dinner with Pres. Obama.  Totally bummed Steven can’t join me at either.  He’s representing us at our niece’s senior high school musical – go Hilary!